frendship

Friday, June 22, 2007

recently.because i was spending a lot of time being supportive. my friendship with someone was called into question with the words i didn't know you knew her that well ,i never heard you mention her.

for me the friend ship is measured by the quality of the connection not how frequently i see them or talk about them.

for me one definition of community is any group of people who are there to be whit you thru the hard times. even when they are people who never new each other before .

i have soooo much more i want to say about this but the longer i wait the less it seems i write

trying to figure out how to change that.

frendship

Friday, June 22, 2007

recently.because i was spending a lot of time being supportive. my friendship with someone was called into question with the words i didn't know you knew her that well ,i never heard you mention her.

for me the friend ship is measured by the quality of the connection not how frequently i see them or talk about them.

for me one definition of community is any group of people who are there to be whit you thru the hard times. even when they are people who never new each other before .

i have soooo much more i want to say about this but the longer i wait the less it seems i write

trying to figure out how to change that.

deprestion/addiction

there is no finesse here it is to painful to type so here's part of the deal with Patricia . she for some reason holds that Reb was in herrick because of addiction despite mm explaining r's failed surgery's and the need for pain meds dr changing med without taking into account the effect i t would have in relation to other meds and conditions this for some reason falls in p's mind as 'common addition and yesterday on the phone i talked about r not wanting to go to residential treatment because it was mostly addicts a nd alcoholics and she was uncomfortable with that and patricia said for the umpteenth time but is she an addict i said she was uncomfortable with day treatment for the same reason and she said but isn;t she an addict.and yes by taking the proscribed amount of drugs in the proscribed fashion they are addicting .but i said that is culturally different than being a recreational drug addict.p said is it.in a tone that implyed that a)it had never accrued to her before and b)she wasn;t buying it. i am sorry i ever mentioned Rebekah to her even thu i haven't broken any confidence i an very uncomfortable with p and wish i had never mentioned r being in the hospital and will certainly be less open with her in the future. why is deprestion so unexceptable?!

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